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Tuesday, September 20, 2011
2.5 years - a long time to neglect my mom and dad's blog.............
It really felt wonderful to 'tune in again' - mom is doing great; dad's been gone since 1993, but when I hear Chris Boti ( or is that Botti) play the horn, it's like having my dad back again as he was in 1945.
Time to turn on their favorite songs and listen 'all night long' as I see the images of both of them from when they were 'youngsters' saying goodbye as dad left for WWII.........
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Friday, March 20, 2009
When they fell in love, it was 'forever'.............
I know the composite photos are small; however, if you look close you'll see my dad (nick-named Bubbins), standing next to a tank - he served with MacArthur in the Philippines during WWII.
What was this all about? Well the Philippines were our allies; just a common-wealth - a country of courageous people.
I thought a little history on the Philippines 'time-line', might be nice. I have a couple friends who live in the Philippines - born in Manila, and they are the dearest people...........
1934-1964: War and Independence
The United States leaves -- twice -- but stays close.
General Douglas MacArthur wades ashore on Leyte in 1944, two years after Japan had defeated American and Philippine forces. (photo: National Archives) |
World War II interrupted the transition to independence. Within minutes of the surprise attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941, Japanese airplanes bombed Manila and nearby American military bases. The American forces in the islands, commanded by General Douglas MacArthur, were unprepared for the invasion that followed. After escaping to Australia, MacArthur told reporters, "I have come through, and I shall return."
Moro traders approach an American Coast Guard vessel, 1945. (photo: National Archives) |
MacArthur and the U.S. army returned to the Philippines in 1944. After a bloody battle for Manila, the islands were declared liberated once more. More than 1 million Filipinos had died during the war. As promised, the Republic of the Philippines became a sovereign and independent nation on July 4, 1946. After witnessing the handover, MacArthur announced, "America buried imperialism here today."
President Franklin D. Roosevelt meets with General MacArthur and Admiral Chester Nimitz to discuss war strategy, 1944. Ten years earlier, Roosevelt had signed the law that laid the groundwork for the hand over of the Philippines. (National Archives) |
And the United States continued to keep a close watch on domestic affairs. The Huk guerrillas resurfaced in the late 1940s, fueled by peasants' continuing desire for agricultural reform. With military aid and covert assistance from the United States, the Philippine government quashed the Huks by 1954.
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A few pictures from Breezy's (mom's) collection
While I'm thinking of it, the flowers that used to be on the right-hand side of this blog, have 'disappeared' - guess the web-site (Pyzan) that helped me create the initial blog have now abandoned their graphics, so I truly miss the bouquet that once appeared on this site to make it so beautifully 'summer' - mom does love her flowers...........
Guess I'll have to go looking for more flowers to post here and on the side-bar.
Diane
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Thursday, October 2, 2008
HAPPY AUTUMN - A WEE LITTLE MIRACLE HAPPENED TODAY....
This wee one came in the form of a post from Brenda, the sister of Julie who died in April of this year. My mom was so taken by the story published in the Kalamazoo Gazette, she sent it to me and asked I put it on her web-page. I received the letter and article on April 29, 2008 - the day my nephew (Mike) turned 39. It was also April 29, 2002, that I nearly died in a car accident, so this was my 6th anniversary of surviving that terrible event that took 5 years to fully recover from.
Then because Brenda took the time to comment, I was able to locate her web-page and found a very charming site where she talks about life; her six children - shows off her beautiful hand-made rugs, and that's where I looked for some type of tribute she might have made to her sister.
Here is Brenda's 'open letter' and post to Julie, it is very loving and warm:
Originally uploaded by bbmarie.
My sister died today. I was with her for 4 days of her last 6. She has been fighting Non-Hodgkins lymphoma for 16 years. But it was the Graft vs. Host disease that killed her.
She was strong and brave and beautiful and so full of love. There is not a person who knew her that didn't love her. She was a poet that married a poet. They adopted a 12 year old boy from inner city Detroit 6 years ago. God Bless John and Martel as they grieve their wife and Mother. Julie you were more than a sister to me, you were a friend and someone whom baring my heart to was easy and safe.
I haven't been posting much because of all the turmoil in my heart. Julie has been in the hospital since February 15, 2008 and what she has gone through was horrendous. She did it because she wanted to live.
She truly fit into the catagory of only the good die young.
Our last days together are filled with love and I will cherish every minute of them forever.
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Friday, August 1, 2008
Welcome to my mom's page! My dad passed away in 1993.
The music you'll hear is a composite of songs that were melodies mom and dad loved in their young years - as they progressed through their lives, and the song 'IF' was played at my father's funeral in May of 1993.
Music was a joy to them; to me - to all of us children, and I hope you enjoy your visit as we walk through the lives of 2 people who gave me such strength; I'm almost 66 years old - mom is going on 84, and between the 'two of us' - just the two of us, we feel the power of what we were taught by our parents - our grand parents, and those who were our neighbors and loved family members.
Do the ANNIVERSARY WALTZ with us - listen to the voices of those talented people who've long since passed, and rejoice in the new artists who keep the music alive in us all! Welcome. Diane - the oldest child of Vern and Marie Rambow - who is very proud to be one of the 5 children who enjoy life in this wonderful country of America.
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By jove, I think she's got it!!!!
Wow - after all those weeks of struggling, and once Mozilla Fox-Fire was downloaded, not only did the blog come in fast as lightening, but the pictures showed up - the music started, and no more 'slow feeds'. You've just got to get that software (it's free), and all the add-ons, and you'll zoom through this blog and all other web-site, and blogs like the speed of light!!!!
Welcome to Breezy - now you certainly will 'breeze' through this the way Breezy did in her 80+ years of extraordinary ability to glean the most from what she had; how she dealt with what she didn't have, and how she continues to thrive and drive through the 'muck' of troubles, with a sincere and honest joy as she moves now to her 84th birthday. With great love - her family; her children, and her friends!
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Thursday, July 3, 2008
Okay, mom told me I should talk nice and explain the problem...
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Labels: MOM SAYS TALK NICE DIANE
Just a quick note about the problems with this blog...
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Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Oh how they danced!
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Labels: WITH A SONG IN MY HEART
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Well I wasn't born when mom and dad used to dance to the ANNIVERSARY WALTZ...
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Monday, May 26, 2008
In Memory of my dad who passed away 15 years ago today.
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Sunday, May 25, 2008
Called mom to see what she was doing for Memorial Day.
I also enjoy the newspaper
clippings mom sends me each week - she's so good about keeping me in touch with
all that happens in my home-town area.
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Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Today I got a lovely e-mail from a man who's ill with cancer...
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Monday, May 19, 2008
Well they spelled my mother's married name wrong, but she got her news-story!
Since my scanner is broken, I had to take this photo - the concrete is our walk-way outside our condo.
Mother had called me about finding thisMother wanted the newspaper to create a brief story; she sent me the clipping - told me the story, and I sent it to the Kalamazoo Gazette about a month ago.
farm-house photo; she said they'd had electricity from the wind-mill that was
'out back'.....
Mom 'fretted' - she thought possibly they'd
ignore the information she wanted so badly to have
published.
On Sunday, mother told me "Hey, they printed it - I'm so happy!" Yes, they wrote a brief history, but too bad they couldn't spell our name right (darned movie RAMBO seems to now be the accepted spelling without checking out the fact that Rambow is the original spelling of the name). Oh well, at least mother is happy - I can see her smiling from here.....
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Photos mom sent to me May 14, 2008 - they just arrived.
The top photo my mother gave me years ago; Dad in Manilla - WWII. I love the photo' of dad and his 'tire' - one of his 'toys'....
Dad, and his sisters - Aunt Betty
has the dark black beautiful hair; she died in a car accident at age 29.
Aunt Donna-Jean (Nonny) is standing in front; she lived in a nursing home for
years because of Alzheimer's Disease - her life was full, but not long.
Dad lost both of his sisters many years before he died in 1993 - we missed our
aunts as well; they were always laughing....
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Wednesday, May 14, 2008
The Anniversary Waltz - "Oh how they danced on the night they were wed...."
Breezy - today was a eventful day because she went
back in for her follow-up mammogram, and it was 'all clear'.....
Tom, Sandy - the 2 children; growing like beautiful flowers as well - the family is all healthy; Breezy is happy, as is her oldest daughter who is the mom of Tom - and very happy to post these recent photos here.All clear was the test; not all
clear was the day - rainy; damp, and so suited for the time of year to plant the
seeds of flowers - a new year of blossoms.
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Happy Birthday to Tom; here's Sandy, Brittany & her guy (Tim), and Justin.....
By the way, FAITH is the newest member of the Tom
Daniels' family - she's a bit over 1-year old; looks much like Sarah, and she wanted to send her best wishes too!
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Thursday, May 1, 2008
"Hey, Breezy - remember this photo of me when I was in Manilla - WWII?"
- lots of pretty feathers to send you my love 'long-distance' like so many
years ago."
Love,
Vern
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Another great talk with Breezy; the cellular phone is 'recharging'....
What fun it is to chat with mom; she's feeling so good - jabbering about 'things in life'.....
We talked about the Indians up near Mt. Pleasant carrying water - the fact Michigan residents want to 'buy water' from the Indians....
We talked about how all of us are going to have to 'buckle down' - be strong, and weather the current economy and other issues that are front-page news.
I told her I found the photo' of her that I took on her Las Vegas trip to see us - we talked about me driving her all over California; Nevada, and Arizona in our motor-home; just mom & me - delightful memories.
So, here's mom - in the sun; always with the sun on her face; a smile - and the wind blowing in her hair - that's 'Breezy'.
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Tuesday, April 29, 2008
A "Mom" letter & request on 4/29/08
"Dear Diane: So glad you're all getting together at the Grand Canyon - I know you'll have fun".
"Enclosed are some clippings of the earth-quake, and the story of the writer who died of cancer"....
"The weather is beautiful; flowers are coming out - spring is here...."
In memory of: Julie Moulds Rybicki - died at Ann Arbor
Hospital after a 16-year bout with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma - age
46.
Mrs. Rybicki had battled it and won over it 7 times. Mrs.
Rybicki, a native of North Muskegon and a graduate of Hope College, published
her poetry collection THE WOMAN WITH A CUBED HEAD in 1998. She wrote about
her cancer experiences. She taught at WMU where she received her masters
in poetry.
"She was the kind of person who was capable of having no illusions
and yet loving you fiercely," her husband said.
Her blog that she kept is here - you might like to read some of her
entries; her last one is in 2006 - nearly 2 years ago.
Mother felt this needed to be mentioned; and
added......
http://www.dancingthecancerdowntodust.blogspot.com/
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Monday, April 28, 2008
....and Breezy said when she heard 3 of us got so sick this past week....
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Thursday, April 17, 2008
OH HOW THEY DANCED....the first 4 words of the ANNIVERSARY WALTZ that's playing now....
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OH HOW THEY DANCED - AND ENJOYED A DAY IN THE PARK TOO!
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Well, look what I found in my closet - wish I'd entered this one sooner...
looking even if the edges of the photo are rough - we had a great day relaxing
in the park, as you can see!
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Saturday, April 12, 2008
Breezy as she looks today; her first grand-child (Lisa) - the beautiful bracelet Kevin made for me. Diane
It was a few years ago at Christmas, when Kevin gave
me this beautiful bracelet he made for me with photos of mom-Marie, and her
grand-kids. I wore that bracelet all the time; one day, it was missing
from my arm.
The first song you'll hear as you visit this page, is
called THE ANNIVERSARY WALTZ. I selected that because of the beginning
words...'oh how they danced on the night they were wed.'
My dad played a beautiful trumpet - the trumpet
wasn't all that beautiful; the way he played it, was. It was difficult
trying to find anyone who could play like my father; however, around 12 years
ago, Kevin and I went to hear a young man (Chris Botti) play in a supper
club. The minute this man started to play, it was like hearing my father
all over again!
My niece (Heather) has been a great inspiration to me; she's a wonderful
mom - an outstanding photographer, and she never stops finding creative ways to
utilize all the beautiful photos she takes. If you'll look in the
side-bar, you'll find a photo-show I made for 'Breezy' (my mom's
nick-name). That link will take you to most of the photos I have here;
however, there will be no text - if you're in a hurry, click on that and
enjoy. Again, it was Heather making up a photo-show some weeks ago, that
gave me the idea for adding this feature to mother's page.
Mom's love of nature; gardening -
never complaining of the long hours and years she's put in to make a lovely home
out of 'what she had', has inspired all of us 5 children of hers, to 'make do' -
or 'make better' with what we have. We've learned how to take 'almost
nothing', and turn it into something pretty special, because both mom and dad
were just that way their entire lives!
I was lucky to have all my great grandparents alive
when when I was born. They all lived long enough for me to learn the good
way of life, from them. My great grandmother Grace lived long enough to
see 2 of her great great grand-children be born; she was so proud of them - her
love for all of us still fills my heart.
Music and art were emphasized by all who nurtured
us. Work - dirty hands; tired backs - signs of a day's
accomplishment. Concern for our surroundings; for the animals that strayed
into the yard - for the birds that lived in our trees, nature was our 'friend' -
we loved all that surrounded us.
The key point of this page started
out to be because of my mother's bout with cancer; it was discovered late-May of
2007. Without going into the difficult details of her 'battle', by
Christmas mom was back in the kitchen fixing a terrific holiday dinner. By
January 20, 2008 mother was given the 'all clear' sign that her cancer was
gone.
Our father tirelessly worked his entire life to do the
best he could to give us the basic things of life. Our father suffered an
agonizing death from cancer - after months of pain and suffering, he died in May
of 1993.
My sister, Nancy - she's had her entire home burned to
the ground; destroying all her precious photos, but started a 'new world' for
herself, and she dances as beautifully as mom and dad did. She's currently
taking classes to improve her knowledge; to find a better job - and she's 61; a
time when many are retiring.
Our
youngest sister (younger than my own daughter)
has worked hard in her own
business as well - none of us 5 children ended up
working for anyone other
than 'ourselves' as we all chose the independent
business-owner ideals and
way of life. Barb has learned a variety of
techniques that contribute to the
comfort and well-being of each of her clients;
she tirelessly adds new skills
to her services, by attending school and seminars
so she can be the 'best'
at what she does.
Again, I want to close this entry with
something Kahlil Gibran
said: "Your children are not your children; they
come through you, not
from you." "You can not make your children to strive
to be like you, but
you can strive to be like your
children."
I think in our family, we simply strive - and we admire all that each of
us have done; we are a reinforcing family - a network of love, that has created
a very strong fabric woven of sincere and ever-constant belief that 'each day is
a new day to fix what might have been broken the day before'.
I am very proud and happy to be just a tiny part of a
tremendous family!Diane
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BREEZY'S OFF TO THE BREAD STORE TO GET MORE FOOD FOR US - EVERY DAY SHE FEEDS US!
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AS USUAL, BREEZY WAS EXCITED TO SEE ME - AND ALL MY FAMILY!
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Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Sorry the photo is so small - my beautiful GRANDMA WILMA
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OH HOW THEY DANCED - MANY YEARS AGO! Mom said she loved this 'talk with God' I sent her a week ago....
“So you would like to interview me?”God asked.“If you have the time,”I said.God smiled.“My time is
eternity… what questions do you have in mind for me?”“What surprises you most about human
kind?”
God answered… “That they get bored
with childhood, they rush to grow up, and then long to be children
again.”“That they lose their health to
make money… and then lose their money to restore their
health.”"That by thinking anxiously about
the future, they forget the present, such that they live in neither the present
nor the future.”
“That they live as if they will
never die… and die as though they had never lived.”God’s hand took mine… and we were
silent for a while.And then I asked, “As a parent, what
are some of life’s lessons you want your children to
learn?”“To learn they cannot make anyone
love them.All they can do is let themselves be
loved.”
“Thank you for your time,” I said
humbly. “Is there anything else you’d like your children to
know?”God smiled and said…“Just know that
I am here...always.”
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Monday, April 7, 2008
OH HOW THEY DANCED!
THEY CALLED DAD 'BUBBINS' - THEY
CALLED MOM 'BREEZY' -- BUBBINS AND BREEZY...THEY DAZZLED EVERYONE WHEN THEY
DANCED TOGETHER!
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OH HOW THEY DANCED - A GOOD WIFE - BREEZY!
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NO, THE NEWS OF HAVING CANCER IS NEVER EASY TO TAKE
How sad were her eyes; how worried Breezy looked...
But, she was determined to win - she did; she gathered all kinds of information, and she stuck to her guns - she listened to her own body, and monitered her treatment carefully.
When the chemotherapy started to wear her down, she told them to STOP - she told them to go straight to surgery; do not pass go - do not expect my $200; I'm going to live to enjoy another Christmas.
Another Christmas came - mom made up her famous ham; her great pumpkin pie - no, mom did not die.....
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MOM AND HER FRIENDS. MARIE ISABEL - MOM, BEVERLY - WE LOST THE 4TH ONE 2 YEARS AGO.
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MOM AND MIKE - BREEZY WAS HIS BEST FRIEND - HE DIED OF CANCER...FOUGHT HARD, THOUGH!
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BREEZY & BARON - 31 YEARS AGO!
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GRANDMA WILMA LIVED AS LONG AS HER AILING HEART COULD - SHE LOVED HER CHILDREN!
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'WE THREE, WE'RE NOT ALONE - WE'RE STILL GREAT COMPANY!"
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